Sunday, January 31, 2010

The Post In Which I Update You On What Has Been Happening Since School Went Back

So...school went back on Thursday. Here are my little darlings, all ready for their first day, standing in front of the beautiful garden that Chris planted at Christmas times.
Josh is in Year 4 this year, but Alana has started high school, so this was her first day wearing her new uniform. Things has been fairly uneventful for Josh so far, the school hasn't put the kids into their new classes yet so he has been in "holding pattern" i.e. still in last year's class. (Back in my day we were in our new classes on the very first day - it was what we looked forward to about going back to school! These days apparently it's much harder for the schools to be sure of exactly how many students they are going to have in each year, so they use the first few days to fine tune the classes.)

For Alana, however, the year has begun with a bang. From the first day they were straight into classes, doing work and receiving homework. From the second day they were expected to find their own way to their different classrooms. Over the weekend we made sure that all her books were covered and labelled so that she wouldn't receive a lunchtime detention. Today they're having school photos so that they can finalise production of student ID cards. Students must carry these cards every day and use them to "swipe on" when they arrive at school (taking the roll being "so last century"!). On Wednesday all her year leave for a three day camp to get to know each other while participating in water sports, rock climbing, archery and the like.

As well as school, after school activities have now begun. Last week the kids had gymnastics and baseball, and Alana is also back at piano lessons. (She has her first Music Performance in class on Friday week. Students that don't play an instrument must recite a poem from memory instead!) This week ballet starts up too, as well as my Maths and Music students. Afternoons are now a minutely organised routine of comings and goings at my place. Dinner happens at a different time each night, to fit in with the movements of various family members. Chris relies on me to simply tell him where he has to be and at what time! (How, I wonder, do single Mums do it? Or families in which the parents work long hours and aren't at home in the afternoon?)

Uni has not started back yet, but I have received my text book. I bought it from The Book Depository, of which I can't speak highly enough. They ship books for free worldwide, and their prices are great. I saved so much money getting it from them rather than via the uni sanctioned coop bookshop. It was even cheaper than a lot of students were selling their copies second hand. Here it is in all its glory!


Yes, I'm trying to convey that it's a very thick book!

I haven't done much more than skim through the introduction and the chapter synopses so far, and suffice to say, there's a lot of it! Will really try to read some today...

Lastly, an update on my progress on the Buck-a-Book Challenge. Since my last post, I've read Nine Parts of Desire by Geraldine Brooks (review here) and I'd Tell I Love You But Then I'd Have To Kill You by Ally Carter. I'd bought it for Alana, but it was just sitting around, and I had nothing to read (not counting uni text!), so I read it! Alana's reading it now that I have given her a favourable review!

So, that makes $9 that I have not put aside yet - but I fully intend to!

What have you been up to?

Warmth from Lulea

Thanks, Priscilla. =)

Saturday, January 30, 2010

1800-hotline

Recently was telling this friend that sometimes I felt that I'm a 1800-hotline...listening to my friends' problems, consoling them and giving them advises. Really want to thank you guys for trusting in me...

I used to wonder... people look for a counsellor when they have their problems, but who should the counsellor look for?

My 1800 hotline... my smile. =)

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Social Justice Challenge - Religious Freedom


January's topic for the Social Justice Challenge is Religious Freedom. What is religious freedom?


Article 18


Everyone has the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion; this right includes freedom to change his religion or belief, and freedom, either alone or in community with others and in public or private, to manifest his religion or belief in teaching, practice, worship and observance.

Violations of religious freedom can take many forms:
Switzerland votes to ban the construction of minarets.
China mistreats the citizens that follow banned religions.
These are just two examples from Amnesty International.

For this challenge, I read Nine Parts of Desire: The Hidden World of Islamic Women by Geraldine Brooks.

I chose this particular book for a couple of reasons. Firstly, Brooks is an Australian author, I am Australian, and I want to make a point of reading more books written and published in Australia. Secondly, I don't know a lot about the Islamic religion and I want to learn more.
What this book is not. This book is not about freedom of belief or the freedom to manifest religion.

This book is a memoir of the time that the author spent living with women in various predominantly Islamic countries, with the express intention of finding out the real story of these women's lives.

I did, however, learn a lot about freedom of belief and the freedom to manifest religion. Though it is easy to believe that The Universal Declaration of Human Rights is "immutable international currency, independent of cultural mores and political circumstances" (Brooks, 2008, p.237), that is not the case. Not all people in all countries agree.

Also, the practice of religion is affected in complex ways by the political climate and cultural norms of a country. Not all Muslims practice their religion the same way or believe the same things.

I highly recommend this fascinating insight into the lives of Muslim women.

That Virus.

Please stay away from me. No matter how hard I try to avoid you, you are still faster than me.

I guess, I need a good rest.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Voices from Lulea...


Haha...and so Sophia had finally found out what's wrong with her webcam, almost wanted to buy one and send it over to her lo.

5 more months to go... let's hope time flies.

Monday Surprises


Received a phone call from the make-up artist from 食神 variety show...yeah, like so random, asking me if I'm free to help her for a editorial photoshoot...was thinking since it's quite interesting, so go for a try... and didn't know, was a makeover before and after thingy... alamak. Seen here with make up artiste suhuan 姐, photographer and myself.


Really didn't know how to pose lah, I hope the photo will not look chui when the magazine is out man... hahhaa.


After my photoshoot, rushed to airport to send clement and geri off... junyue with clement


Myself with clement...


Hall 14...clement and geri really have alot of friends arh. Anyway, Geri...thanks for helping me to get the belt ah. Hahaha, paisay..

带我走... 到那个遥远的地方.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

What Makes Me Happy

The lovely Maria Grazia at Fly High! has passed on the Happy 101 Award to me. Thankyou so much Maria! The rules are that I must list 10 things that make me happy, then pass on the award to seven other bloggers.

So here goes - I'm going to be brutally honest with this list - 10 things that make me happy.
1. The beauty of nature. Pictures give me a lift, but there's nothing like actually being out in it. Whether it's the beach or the bush, sunset or rain, plants or animals, mountains, waterfalls or deserts; just being outdoors in nature, breathing the air and taking in the view makes me happy.
2. When my children are happy. I love to watch my kids participate in an activity that they really enjoy, or receive an award or a present that they really love. It makes me happy to see their faces light up, and I love when they call out "Mum!" (as in "look at me!").
3. Giving and receiving presents. I like buying presents for people; I enjoy choosing something that I think they'll really like. I must admit, I do sometimes feel a little bit anxious when they open it though! And - it makes me happy to get gifts! I love it!
4. Eating out. Whether it's just a simple coffee, or a full three course meal in a five star restaurant, I love eating out! I enjoy choosing from the menu and having someone serve me (!). I like to look at the view, or watch the people go by, or chat with my tablemates.
5. Watching movies. Back in the day, B.C. (before children), I used to see lots of movies. It was rare for me to wait to see a movie until it was out on video (yes, it was video then, not DVD!). I still love watching movies, but it's more of a treat for me now, so I'm more careful about what I see. Also, I see a lot more kids movies these days!
6. Reading. I'll read anything, anywhere, anytime. I'll even read while I'm watching TV! I find reading relaxing and stimulating, informative and entertaining. I could never give it up! I also enjoy reading out loud.
7. Being praised. How embarrassing! I do like being told I'm wonderful!
8. Having nothing in particular that I have to do. It makes me happy to have no "must do", "should do" or "ought to do" filling up my day. I love it when I know that I can just do whatever I want!
9. Feeling satisfied that I've done a good job. I love the happy feeling that I get when I've completed a task and really feel proud of myself that I've done my best.
10. Beautiful things. Looking at art makes me happy. Looking through a fashion or home magazine and admiring a gorgeous pair of shoes, or fabulously decorated living room makes me happy. Buying a really pretty pair of earrings makes me happy. I like beautiful things.

So that's me. And now I'm passing this award on to 7 blogs that make me happy:

Congratulations to the bloggers responsible for the blogs above. Your blogs are enjoyable and entertaining to read and make me happy!

Missing you!



Missing you , Sophia Sim!

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Mum's Birthday + Top 6 Meet Up


Celebrated my mum's birthday yesterday...


Went to eat zicha...and came home celebrating birthday for her...



Noticed that she's in different shirt? LoL... she's a LH... LAO HIAO, hahah... she said every year she's wearing red, so this year try to take photo in another color... -___- |||


After that...went to meet up FOC top 6 and friends for meet up session, supposed to meet them for dinner... but was celebrating my Mum's birthday... we went to Darius's house... Meixian and Serena here.


Junyue, Clement and Yixia...


Myself with Dennis...


The cousins, Joseph and Darius...


Dennis came back from his US exchange...and bought each of the top 7 a souvenir...


and we ostracized Darius... LoL.


Meet up more guys!

Friday, January 22, 2010

Float my Boat

We took the boat out for the first time this morning! Check out the photos below.





Thursday, January 21, 2010

The Buck-a-Book-Challenge


Now this is a challenge that I can do! Courtesy of DelGal's Book Reviews. Simply put aside one dollar for every book that you read this year. At the end of the year, take the money you have saved and spend it on something wonderful for yourself. Yay! I can definitely do this one!

So far this year I have read:
Mao's Last Dancer by Li Cunxin
an ice cold grave by Charlaine Harris
Sense and Sensibility and Sea Monsters by Jane Austen and Ben H. Winters
Worried all the Time by David Anderegg
The Brutal Art by Jesse Kellerman
Her Fearful Symmetry by Audrey Niffenegger
Lean Mean Thirteen by Janet Evanovich

That's $7 already! Now I just have to find somewhere safe to stash the money so I don't spend it!

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Mao's Last Dancer

Mao's Last Dancer by Li Cunxin.

Received as a Christmas present from my sister-in-law Cass.

**** "Fascinating and inspiring."








From the back cover: "In a small, desperately poor village in north-east China, a young peasant boy sits at his rickety old school desk, interested more in the birds outside than in Chairman Mao's Red Book and the grand works it contains. But that day, some strange men come to his school - Madame Mao's cultural delegates. They are looking for young peasants to mould into faithful guards of Chairman Mao's great vision for China...Here is Li Cunxin's own story, a story that very nearly vanished, like millions of other peasants' lives, amidst revolution and chaos. It is a story of courage, a mother's love, a young boy's longing for freedom - a beautiful, rich account of an inspirational life, told with such honesty, dignity and pride."

Reading Li Cunxin's story of his childhood in a commune with his parents and six brothers is illuminating and distressing. It is hard to believe that such poverty and hardship existed for ordinary Chinese families in such recent history. What is also incredible is the love, pride and determination that existed within his family. The devotion that family members show towards each other is unknown in Western culture (at least in my experience).

Li Cunxin receives the opportunity to train in Beijing at Madame Mao's Dance Academy. At the age of eleven, he travels far from his family home to begin seven years of intensive training in Ballet, Chinese Opera Dance and Chinese Folk Dance, as well as Chinese, Mathematics, and Political Training. The devotion to Mao and the Communist cause that he describes is overwhelming. He wants to do his very best to forward the cause of Communism and bring glory to his country.

Cunxin does not begin as the most talented student, but he shows the most determination and passion as he matures. He ends up having the opportunity to travel to America as an exchange student, which is the catalyst for major changes in his life.

I really enjoyed the honesty with which Cunxin tells his story. I enjoyed learning about Chinese customs, family life, and the "Mao years". I especially liked hearing about his progress in ballet as his story continued, and the roles that he danced once he began to dance professionally with the Houston Ballet Company.

If you enjoy autobiographies, I'm sure that you'd enjoy this one; especially if you are interested in China, or ballet, or both!

Recommended.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Going back hall...


Going to write a quick blog entry, cos I'm super shacked from JCRC meeting plus work. Today went back hall for meeting, but was super tired cos had to OT till 7plus... after meeting, Junyue and hall friends were there... and they were playing poker in Yixia's room... this is Ben, the overall winner...


Pok..pok...poker face...Mah Mah Mah Mah...


Long time no see, Junyue and Huiyee.


Ignoring the dumbbells behind...which belong to the fitness guru yixia, hahah... Meixian and Lynette, the cousins...


Ignoring the muscles... focusing on the gong-gongness of felicia... Lol.
Felicia and Ben Lum!

Okay lah...tired from work, tml gonna reach office early. Busy with preparations for Thursday meeting. I want Thursday meeting to end soon!

Monday, January 18, 2010

Get Involved in the Social Justice Challenge

I'd like to introduce you to the Social Justice Challenge, unless you have found it already! This challenge is running all year, and each month is devoted to a different social justice issue.

The monthly issues are:
January - religious freedom
February - water
March - domestic violence and child abuse
April - hunger
May - AIDS crisis
June - genocide
July - poverty
August - illiteracy and education
September - modern day slavery
October - homelessness and refugees
November - women's rights
December - child soldiers and children in war

Now I'm guessing that at least one of these issues strikes a chord with you.

The aim of the challenge is for participants to educate themselves about these areas of social injustice. I'm really looking forward to learning more, and gaining the information and tools that I need to change the world for the better.

For each monthly theme, the hosts of the challenge have put together book lists and recommendations, along with links to websites. For January (click here to view the recommendations), I have chosen to read Geraldine Brooks' Nine Parts of Desire. Stay tuned for my comments...

Sunday, January 17, 2010

School Holidays are Coming to a Close...

As a general rule, I'm not a huge fan of the school holidays. I hear lots of others Mums wax lyrical about the wonders of sleeping in, and having no schedule, of just being able to hang around and relax at home with the kids...but for me - not so much.

I tend to thrive on schedule, and the kids and I like to have something in particular to do. Don't get me wrong, I like a good sleep-in as much as the next person; and I'll be the first to admit that I like to do a fair bit of hanging around the house during term time. But there's a big difference between having a nice relaxing day at home reading (on my own), in amongst the hustle and bustle of work and other regular activities, and having days and days on end of hanging around the house with nowhere to go and nothing to do, and nothing scheduled to break the monotony! Yes, I have to admit, I'm one of those horrible mothers who likes her children more when she doesn't have to see them all the time.

I'm looking forward with great anticipation to January 28th, the first day of the new school year! Hooray! What am I looking forward to?

1. School starts! Alana is starting high school, and Joshua is going into Year 4. The start of a new school year is always exciting - finding out who your teacher(s) is(are) and which friends are in your class(es). This year will be extra exciting with Alana starting high school. A new school, new subjects, new friends - a great adventure!

2. I'm back at work. I teach private music lessons and tutor kids that are having trouble with maths. Consequently, the work dries up over the long Christmas/summer school holidays. Everyone takes a break from their music lessons, and waits to see what the new school year brings to decide if they need maths tuition. With the start of the school year, I'll be back at work, and back earning money! Hooray! It's a killer surviving on one wage over the expensive Christmas break.

3. All the kids' after school activities are back on! Hooray! No more cries of "I'm bored" as ballet, gymnastics, baseball and piano lessons re-commence. Bright, energetic kids like mine need things to do.

4. My activities are back on! Hooray! During school terms I attend a couple of tai chi classes, and meet weekly with a friend to swim laps, have a coffee and chat. Bright, energetic mums like me need things to do!

5. It won't be long until first semester at uni begins (March 1). I'm halfway through my Master of Education (Teacher Librarianship), and am looking forward to getting back into it this year. So far, I can't really "get ahead" because I haven't received any information about what is expected for my subjects. However, my textbook should arrive on Thursday, so I'll be able to get started reading it.

So...for all my complaining about school holidays, sometimes the stars align and I end up having a great day. Today the kids and I went to Gosford Regional Gallery and Japanese Gardens. Here are some photos of the kids enjoying the 26-degrees-and-sunshine in the gardens.




Feeding the koi.

Wisteria Walk.

From Hall...back to home


I have shifted back to home... thanks to Joseph for sending me back with my barangs barangs today. Right now Joseph is staying in my room.


Gonna miss alot... from hall 14...

Saturday, January 16, 2010

an ice cold grave by Charlaine Harris

an ice cold grave by Charlaine Harris.

Borrowed from my local public library.

***** "Loving this series!"










From the inside cover: "Hired to find a boy gone missing in Doraville, North Carolina, Harper Connelly and her stepbrother Tolliver head there - only to discover that the boy was only one of several who had disappeared over the previous five years. All of them teenagers. All unlikely runaways. All calling for Harper. Harper soon finds them - eight victims, buried in the half-frozen ground, all come to an unspeakable end..."

Did I mention that I'm loving Harris' "grave" series?

As usual, Harper just wants to do her job in relative anonymity; using her gift for locating dead bodies to bring closure to relatives and friends, or her ability to divine cause of death to help law enforcement officers. She justs wants a quiet life, travelling the highways and backroads of the country with her constant companion Tolliver, earning her keep by collecting a fee for each successful body recovery. She and Tolliver would like to spend less time on the road, living out of a suitcase and eating fast food; they'd like to learn to cook!

Unfortunately, Harper's life is never that simple.  There are always complications that arise once the body has been found. Things go from bad to worse, and Harper and Tolliver find themselves unable to leave Doraville, and in danger of falling prey to a sadistic serial killer.

I read this book practically all the way through in one sitting - it's that kind of a page-turner. Harper and Tolliver are appealing characters, I can't help but cheer them on! And I love the way that the mystery takes almost to the last page to solve.

If you like mysteries, you'll love this series. If you like Harris' other work (Sookie Stackhouse), then you'll probably enjoy this too.

Highly recommended.

Weekend Mahjong

It has been a while since my friends come to my house for mahjong sessions...

After work on Friday...I have 3 Big, strong, and yandao gentlemen, haha...who came to my house for mahjong. Weizhi adn Weiyong went to pick up the handicapped Justin, before coming to Bosch to pick up me. Had dinner before we started our game...





We had a long...no, super long mahjong session. Because we had lots of "diao zengs". Haha, 4 hour for just one round.. by the time we finished mahjong, all was tired... and shacked. Not as shacked as after waterpolo though. LoL.


Shagged and hungry...Weizhi munching on a packet of Mamee.


The one who lost until very jialat... lol. Justin 9 tiles "万" come out... Weiyong still 打万 tile, end up Justin 湖, and so...hahah, he has to 包! $12.80 for him... Weizhi and myself just sit there and shake our leg watch show. LoL.

Lol... after mahjong, we head on for supper...and after that home sweet home. By then I was already super shacked.

Okay lah... nights off for now. Yawnz

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Sense and Sensibility and Sea Monsters



Sense and Sensability and Sea Monsters by Jane Austen and Ben H. Winters.

Won in a giveaway from Ashley at Ashley's Library.

*** "Ridiculous!"









I love Austen's narrator's voice. In all her novels, I enjoy the gentle irony she writes with as she describes her characters, with all their quirks and eccentricities; their faults and failings. She always stops just short of mocking her characters, and allows you to laugh with her at their pride, selfishness and sillyness.

Winters does not bother stopping short of mockery. He leaps right over the line, heads straight past sillyness and ends up firmly in the territory of the ridiculous.

The "Alteration", an unexplained but often hypothesised about event in history, has caused sea creatures and humans to be at war. It's eat-or-be-eaten! Thus a pleasant beachside party of "tiki dances, crawfish fries and bonfires", swiftly becomes a situation of life and death, as a jellyfish "twice the size of the largest man present", "demonstrating itself to be faster than any creature lacking legs or other apparent means of locomotion ought naturally to be", advance on the party with the intent of consuming whomever it can catch. All the families enjoy a variety of seafood at every meal, and travel by sea has become dangerous indeed! Even a pleasant ramble renders one in danger of attack by giant octopus, if you are unfortunate enough to stumble into the brook!

This book follows the general plot and characterisation of Sense and Sensibility, while adding sea witches, pirates, and a fellow suffering from a cruel affliction, the addition of "a set of long squishy tentacles protruding grotesquely from his face". The difficulties of life in the "altered" Britain has also caused the characters to become adept at defending themselves from murderous sea creatures: says Marianne, "Margaret, we will walk here at least two hours, and if we are set upon by any sort of man-beast with lobster claws, I shall swiftly butcher it with this pickaxe I brought for that purpose".

Winters has also added a bit of steampunk (Victorian science fiction) to the book, by introducing Sub-Marine Station Beta, an undersea city ("the greatest engineering triumph of human history since the Roman aqueducts") where the fashionable set enjoy "undersea pleasure gardens and aquatic exhibition halls".

Did I enjoy this book? Yes I did, but I found that I had to read it in small doses. You have to enjoy silliness to enjoy this book, and occasionally the ridiculous factor got a little too high for me. If you enjoy Austen, it's worth a try.

Aparts from the post its on my desk...


You guys give me the strength to carry on my job when I'm tired...

Haha...

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

My Princess

Here is Alana, all dressed up as Princess Tiana, or Cinderella at the ball, either will do.

(Yes, I know, I should have ironed the skirt, but I ran out of time.)

Doesn't she look beautiful!
I expect she and the others will have a wonderful time at the party.
Happy Birthday Nicole.

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